sábado, 24 de septiembre de 2016

I made the best decision?

Before asking your opinion I'll start by telling my story.
All started about one year ago when I met him in the oddest way. At that time I had a best friend named Raquel and told me that there was a guy who she liked a lot and if I could add him to Facebook, so I accept and add him. A week later the guy had sent me a message. I replied him because I thought it would be the last time he send me a message, so I decided not to tell my friend. My surprise was that he started to speak to me a lot. And every day that passed, I was aware that we had many things in common. Soon we began to go out the three of us (my best friend, he and I), and I began to consider him like my brother, and so do him. But over time without realizing it, we couldn't spend a day without talking because we missed, we were going anywhere together, we began to treat us as a couple and people began to ask us if we were dating; and obviously our answer was no, we are only friends. But eventually we begin to believe what all the people told us and unwittingly, our feelings began to change. I talked with my best friends and told her that without wanting it, my feelings toward him had changed, and obviously she get mad. Two weeks later I decided to talk to him; and I said I felt guilty because my best friend had confided in me and I had taken the attention of the guy she liked, and because of that I thought that it was not the best idea to be together, at least until things calmed down. He at first didn't agree, but then he agreed that I was right and that it was not the moment to be together. When things get calmed down, we talked again and we started a relationship. The first months all went well, it was an incredible relationship. We never had a reason why to fight. But one summer everything changed, I went to Spain with his friends for one month; at first we talked almost every day, but suddenly we stopped talking. And when I return things obviously changed a lot. It was not the same, we fight almost every day for things that are not important. And gradually we stop having things in common, his life began to revolve around alcohol and I pass to a second term. I was very sad, and I can't understand at what time everything had changed, and when I had ceased to be important in his life. A few days later, I decided to talk to him and said it was the best we finished, because now we had no things in common and because things were not working. Being honest at first it took me a lot of work to get ahead, I didn't want to go to the place where I could meet him. But eventually I understood that I had made the best decision, and although at that moment it hurt me a lot, now I was a totally different person because of him.
Now that you know my story, do you think I made the best decision?


17 comentarios:

  1. In my opinion I think you did the best descision ever, I have boyfriend and I know how it feels to fight and to love someone so much but if you change because of that person the change needs to be better and I think that if he starts drinking a lot the best you could did was left him and find someone who completes you in a better way❤️❤️

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  2. I think the best you could do was let him go because you are young and you were changing for bad because of him and thats not good at all so I would do the same if I was in your place

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  3. your decisión was good, always theres a good person for you

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  4. In my opinion I think your decision was good, because the best decision is always what makes you feel better and happier. In our life we can create health and happiness by choice. Those choices are in how we think, act and react to the things we cannot control.

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  5. That is a great question! Honestly I never will lose a friend for a man, I think the friends are for all the life and a man... mmm I don't think so, you are very young for finding true love. Don't change your essence for other people!

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  6. Friends are for life but girlfriends or boyfriends kep changing so thats the best thing you can do dont losse a friend for some one doesent deserve it.

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  7. I think you made the best decision, because if you are going to be with someone is because this person makes you happy, and if you change and he change, and you didn't feel the same way, so maybe you have to give time to the time.

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  8. I understand perfect your situation recently I was in a similar situation and I think if it is the best decision, something happened and no longer worked, if someone decided to leave it is because it had to be, and now you realize you're better

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  9. In my opinion, you made the best decision, you tried, and if the things did not go so well, no was just for you, maybe you change, but the change no always is bad, many times come to something better. I just say, be confident with who deserves, and never lie to your friends, friends are the best you can choose.

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  10. to be honest yoy made the best decision you are very young and you think like old person its ok!!
    but you need to relax and ejoy the moment i think! is my personal opinion!
    hahahaha


    regards!!

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  11. I have not lost a friend for a man but that is the best you could do!

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  12. Congratulations you chose the best decision of your life, the most important is that you are grate with your feelings and your thoughts.
    Now enjoy your life and live like this day was the last

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  13. I think your decision went very good because it's better to leave things and you avoid to have problems.

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  14. I think your decision was good because you know that the things have changed and doesn't works like in the beginning

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  15. I think that if you end a relationship that was not productive for you was the best, and although it hurt a lot, that was the door to probably have a more beautiful relationship, but now with more experience

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  16. I read your post and a similar situation happened me so I uderstand you. I think to you was take the best decition in the world, soon will come perfect man for you and you will can enjoy he.

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  17. I read your post and i think that your decision was the best some times we need to try see the things with a imparcial perspective I know that it is difficult but when happen we can to take the best decisions. Enjoy the life.

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